tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11125999893780432.post8479709057255507442..comments2023-06-15T07:32:48.443-04:00Comments on Jen's Journey From PHAT to PHABULOUS: The power of words...Jennifer Hudson Mosherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13634524809826975316noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11125999893780432.post-81278690974151877572014-06-19T09:19:03.345-04:002014-06-19T09:19:03.345-04:00you are probably going to have to get used to peop...you are probably going to have to get used to people making "back door" compliments. That's just how some people are. I have heard people say something like "oh yeah, you're so fat" to a thin person who might complain about gaining a few pounds. People who have never struggled with weight don't understand - the word "fat" can send you into a tail spin. I do believe your friend was giving you a compliment though. Julienoreply@blogger.com